@hover.ch
I am not that skilled pilot as many here are, but I would recommend to keep it simple.
The less switches, the better, what you describe above, is a bit complicated, since all your logical steps, you have to know in emergency case, and you have to train all of them.
You have to be able to use all switches without looking at the rc-transmitter, and without thinking. If this is not the case right now, you have to exercise that as long as you can apply them blindly.
The IOC is a nice feature, it is nice to have, but the better approach would be to practice to fly "nose in", and to practice that in manual mode (but possibly not on an Drwxs AD-8). If you can do so there is no longer a need for an IOC.
Also your ideas around the throttle-curves, I would strongly doubt, the better thing is just to practice how to apply throttle. There will always be a situation, where alt-hold is not as precise as you wish, in this case you are not able to react, or you have to think first what "throttle-curve" is currently active, and how to get the right one.
Keep it simple (as simple as possible), one 3-way switch for Flight-Modes, and a 2-way switch to activate failsave is enough. If you can handle this blindly and in all situation you can imagine, you can step foreward and activate a second 3-point switch to go for POI (the IOC I would not use). I am still not using IOC or POI, this can all be flown "by hand".
best regards
Ferdinand