Sounds like you need a "flanged nut":
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q=flanged+nut&meta=
Or are you wanting something that's bigger "across the flats". You shouldn't, in the sense that metric hardware is carefully sized so that the wrench size is correct fr applying the correct range of torque for that size of fastener. Really high quality tools help, as always ;-)
flanged would be good but then its not nylock, i couldnt find a flanged nylock which would be perfect
I recieved some M8 washers today which are the perfect thickness, just 1mm! Unfortunately turns out these are slightly bigger than 8mm,, i guess so they can fit over 8mm thread?
Anyway they dont sit flush on the motor like the 8mm holed graupners, the hole is slightly bigger (spec of m8 washer is 8.4mm), so they arent garenteed to be centered when tightened which could cause vibrations etc! It seems nothing can be simple :|
Do washers exist with an actual 8mm diameter hole and not 8.4mm that will sit flush?