Yeah - sorry about the distraction, Quinton. We're all in a muddle now because somebody diverted the thread somewhat.
I asked originally about the need for a 90A-rated connector because of the implication that your rig was actually expecting to pass 90A through it, which will easily occur if, for example, you use one humongous big battery pack to supply the whole rig. Asking a 10AWG/6sq.mm.
wire to carry that much is IMO inappropriate. Let's say you have an octo with 400W motors fed with 6S, i.e. 22.2V nominal. At full chat, that's (potentially) 18A each, so 144A for the whole rig. My suggested strategy is to spread that load across 3 or even 4 battery packs. Instead of, say, one 8000mAh pack, use 4 2000mAh packs or 3 2800mAh packs. With 4 packs, each only has to supply one quarter of the total current demand - 36A. Each of the 4 packs would be plugged directly to a "bus bar" - usually a power distribution board of some sort. This "bus bar" is the only component in the rig that's carrying the entire current, so make sure it's up to the job (without being excessively heavy). Now your battery connectors and the wires have a relatively easy task - no stress, no strain, no chance of excessive heat leading to failure. The small weight penalty (of 4 packs instead of one) is more than compensated for by the reliability gain (and, ideally, less voltage drop between battery and ESC). There's no need for any single connector or wire to carry 90A. Added advantage - one pack out of the four could have a ****y fit during the flight and you'd probably still make it to the ground in one piece.
As you say, most packs come with 10AWG wires, so you need a connector that's able to attach to that. An XT90 pair weighs 13g (apparently) and we need to add a couple more grams for solder and heatshrink - let's call it 15g. Four pairs weighs 60g - I'd say that was excessive since they only have to carry 36A max each. On that basis alone, I'd disqualify XT90s for the job, but as you say, XT60s have trouble with 10AWG. Four Powerpole connections would be (@6g each) 24g total. And they can be locked together for absolute peace of mind. And they're more or less impervious to arcing damage. And there's no solder so less chance of an internal breakage. And they're cheap... etc. etc. (oops! now I
am pushing the Powerpoles
)