Increased conductor resistance reduces your system efficiency, i.e., will only decrease your total flight time and/or possibly slightly reduce the peak voltage that might otherwise reach your motors due to voltage division. I don't see a risk of damage at all.
The two upper legs of your parallel "Y" connector should be the same wire size as the conductors coming from each battery. B
ut since the bottom of your "Y" connector has to handle the currents from both batteries, it is preferable that it be a larger conductor, i.e., #12 or #10 awg.
Typically a Y" parallel connector standardizes on one common cable size. I typically make my own.....
The answer to such a question is relative, not a definitive yes or no, which leaves lots of latitude for a typical salesman's answer.....i.e., Is he working for the customer or the boss?
Personally I prefer to work through the math to reach my own conclusions.
The 25C battery rating is just one factor in determining the appropriate conductor size(s). The other is your electrical load, i.e., motors.
In any case this is not math but simple arithmetic (addition) unless you need to get in to ohms law which would require a bit of multiplication and/or division.
E = I*R where E = volts, I = current (amps or milliamps) R = resistance in ohms. If you know the combined resistance of all your motors under full load you can calculate your maximum current travelling thru the bottom part of your "Y" parallel connector.
I ended up buying 1 4500mah 3S 50-100C Best DNA LiPo from Hong Kong on eBay for £20.
I also bought a parallel XT60 cable to try and use my current 25C 5000mah packs in parallel and see if that makes a difference. I have been told by blade-hobbies on eBay that as my batteries are only 25C, I can run 2 of them through a 14AWG parallel cable without any problem or damage. Is this true?